Hi, new here and my H is in MLC at 32.

[txbutterfly]

Talked with H just now and he says that our C told him he thinks we should have a harder separation - for say 6 months or so - where we don't really talk or see each other except for work. Is this a good idea? C says we are too "enmeshed"...I agree but just wonder if that would be good or bad for our M.

H just told me he feels "too responsible" for my feelings. I am not sure what I am supposed to do with that. I feel crappy about it, and I know he is right b/c I do have trouble handling my emotions...but I wish I could have heard this before...I don't really know how to manage the ONSLAUGHT of emotions I am experiencing from this separation. Would have been easier to deal with this under normal conditions, but alas, I realize now things can't always go the way I want them to.