Told her I might get to go to the Bahamas for the company trip. She asked if I was taking her with me. Is she fu@#@#@!!@##!! kidding me? I told her NO.. then she asked who I was taking.. I told her I didn't know. Which is the truth.
You should have been charming and told her that of course you would take her and then made some veiled sexual innuendos (maybe bring up some amazing time you had together during a previous vacation).
NEVER speak or act in a way to make her thankful she's divorcing you. Don't make it that easy for her.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
