I have a question for you all... I spoke to a coach yesterday... and Mark, all that you say is right on... 100%. It's so frickin' hard, but it's the right thing to do.
Here's my question. My wife told me about her affair. Co-worker. Sees him almost everyday. I asked that he stop the texting and the calls. I just cringe everytime my cell bill comes.... is his number going to be on there??? But she told him that I know. She told him to stop the texting. I want so badly to call, or text him to just lay off. Just lay off.
But according to the coach, and you Mike, if you want to drive someone away, do what they would hate for you to do... right? So I know she would hate if I did that... maybe not HATE, but it would upset her... I know the answer should be NO don't do it...
Is that the advice you all would give? LOL...
Not to put u all on the spot.
Peace.
I would not contact the other man...trust me on this one. I just did this Monday and she was so pissed at me and I wish I never would have done it.
