Why do you have to let her know that you're aware she has been lying to you from the beginning and that you forgave her? Do you envision that she'll say, "oh mwel, now I see how great you are. Let's stay together!" No good will come of having that discussion. It is for your benefit alone. If you are done trying to save your marriage, then have the talk. Otherwise, leave it alone.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
