MWEL - what is your intention with what you have written? Is this something you are planning on giving to your wife or are you simply venting/unloading here?
I think it's important to get the thoughts out, as you've done here, but sending something like this to your wife is NOT a good idea.
I know you're dying to tell her these things but I'm afraid it will look like pursuit and desperation and, in reality, I believe it is. I'm sorry to say that but I've seen it myself. This is going to push her away even more.
*** DB'ERS: IF ANY OTHER OPINIONS ON THIS, PLEASE CHIME IN ***
The WAS is an alien to all of us. There is no way we can truly understand them, especially if they are going to be providing the information we seek. They are confused, they rewrite history, they don't want to be reminded of when things were going well.
It sucks, it really does, but you need to step back a bit.
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