What do I do with her?

[Mike is Hurtin']

When you say things to be discovered, do you mean about the A? Or about life in general?

All of the above.

I'm through with trying to learn more about the A and OG. As I said previously, I know enough about OG to know that he's not much of a man at all; certainly not someone I want in my social circle. As for the A itself - I already have a confession that there was a kiss, and ample evidence to suggest that there's still an emotional commitment. Knowing all the gory details won't make me feel any better about that.

No - what I meant was learning more about life. Not having a spouse makes you recognize all the things you had *with* a spouse - but it's also revealing to me all of the compromises I made, and all the things I gave up.

Take care, know you aren't alone, there are a heck of a lot of us that will support you.

Thanks. It sure is comforting to have a forum like this, full of people going through similar experiences.

-- Mike