still trying, now separating

[Dom R]

Sounds like you're still confused, "still".
or at the very lest, not being honest, either with yourself, or us here.

You contradicted yourself in the same post, and very majorly.

I give. I won't give up hope but I'm done trying, at least for now.

vs

I fully accept now that it's over. I'm done fighting it.

Truly "accepting that 'it's over'", is equivalent to saying "I give up, it is hopeless".

Saying you "still have hope", at the same time that you say "It's over and I accept that", is self contradictory.

I can't go on in the current situation any more.
...I'm adopting a position of assuming it's over unless she actually tells me differently...
Just do it for me.
...
Ready to move on.
...

you really havent tried very hard.
Seems like my old, early post was right on the money: your wife is better off without you, seems like.

So long, and enjoy your life "just for you".