I said that I had hoped he would join us for dinner. Not now. Oh, and I wouldn't have talked R. Just dinner. To please D8 mostly.
Yes, I do think time apart is sometimes less stressful. But not necessarily when I am alone. I am working on finding things to occupy my time. Redoing my home once I get all his stuff out. Perhaps even rearranging rooms. I have lots of ideas.
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08