I agree with Brit. There isn't anything that you can "say". Sad, isn't it?
mwel, you WILL be okay. What you are worried about is what to do, how to act, or what to say. Because there isn't anything in particular that will bring her back, unless she wants to, how about being yourself. Be the you that you would like to be. Practice on your friends and family by being a genuine great guy. It's okay to be you. You wouldn't want her to come back if she can't accept you, would you?
mwel, there are so many newcomers that I probably mix you all up. You don't have kids, is that right? And her career keeps you apart most the time? What would be different if you got her back? You'd still see each other very infrequently and be a set-up for a bad marriage. She probably needs more to feel love than talking on the phone. She probably needs other things to feel loved; things a long distance relationship can't provide. I know we are here to bust divorce, but consider how you will even keep it busted if you were back together.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
