Heim, Sorry about your Mawmaw, but like you already stated it'll be good to say goodbye to her. Make the best of it. I'd offer to meet you for a beer when you pass through but unfortunately I won't have a day off until next wednesday. (sometimes this construction schedule sucks)
Things for me have been pretty good. W moved back in and things have been going well. She read the 5LL without telling me and then came to me to tell me about how much it helped her understand some of the things that were misunderstood between us.
It's not perfect by any means but I see light. She is still making some mistakes, and I do to, but we are at a point at the moment where we can call each other on the mistake and we talk about it rather than getting mad or hurt.
