I don't believe that, mk. I know men who are more than capable of giving great love. just look around this board. it gives me hope, actually. I think we both just drew the short straw.
Something to think about:
Speaking only for myself: I think I'm a lot better at actually giving and showing love now, than I was 10 years ago.
It's not always about finding "the right guy". It's more about finding a guy who wants to be a better man.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle