That coasting and stand offish thing is really hard to live with, I know. And in my case I should have taken it a lot more seriously at the time - but then you don't want to be pushy if he's just working through some stuff in his head, either.
Just try to be patient both with H and yourself. I've struggled with the weight thing all my life and I know how hard it is. Stick with it though, you're worth it!!
Any fun new exercise type things you might want to get into? I was thinking that might both be fun and jumpstart the weight thing a bit.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
