What the heck were you thinking?? She knows how you feel. This if anything pushed her father away. As for her "love songs" you do not know what she is thinking when she hears them. Is it the OM or maybe the way things used to be years ago between you two.
Husband
I know it was not the best strategy and probably a mistake. I think though that I'm at the point where I am comfortable with the idea of D. Both from a perspective of I know I can and will be happy without her, and also I am now doubting that she could truly find happiness with me at this point.
I know for certain that they were 'their' songs. I've seen things written and mentioned previously about some of these specific songs. She has said in the past that what she really wants is time to herself and really doesn't want to be involved in any relationship. I know this is not the truth and that she feels as though the OG is her soulmate. Understanding that, I think that even if she were to come back to me, she wouldn't commit 100%. At least that's where she is now. I'm pushing to move things forward at this point as I am ready to move on. If she at some point sees how much of a mistake she is making, I might consider trying again, but I need her to make the moves at this point. I will be working on making myself happy.
