Hi Sandi, I hope my W is not having EA's with 5 OM! LOL!
Just reading your posts from the last few days gives me a lot of insight into what is going through my W's mind during this EA.
I still cant say for sure if she is still involved with the OM, because as i have said before, she is acting very different from the way she did when I first discovered her EA.
Sandi, the way she was acting the last few weeks from the end of the prednisone that she was on, was very different from the previous few weeks.
She wasnt nasty or anything, but she seemed very distant. Like maybe she is in mourning or something.
These last few weeks she has been somewhat miserable, as I can look into her eyes and tell that something is wrong.
Since I have most of the control of the sitch, nothing she does gets me bent out of shape. Maybe I'm lying a bit, but I dont show it to her.
This week she is way different, acting more chatty, starting conversations when I least expect, telling me that she had an interview last night at 5 and would be late. Maybe it's b/c my D's boyfriend brought his 7 month old nephew to the house on Monday night. W looked like she was in heaven feeding him, holding him, and playing with him. We will also be babysitting him on friday nite and most of saturday.
Cant say for sure, but I would say that menopause and the empty nest are a big part of her problem.
Also, my S made the basketball team at college and will be playing a scrimmage game on sat afternoon. Seems that when the kids are involved, she acts more like her old self.

It was interesting when you mentioned your webcam. My W bought one last summer and she was online with a family from Morocco in Africa and sending pictures of herself to this family. They in turn had sent pix of their family.
I remember when she got in contact with a female member of this family that was living and working near us and we had to drive to this persons workplace b/c the family sent us gifts from home.
My W was getting to the point that she was going to have the whole family come for summer vacation and we were going to have to entertain them! I put my foot down and told her that it was ok to talk to them, but not go any further.
Now that I think about it, she was talking about this family to me and probably wanted me to get involved with something that was fun to her and I responded negatively. Probably not a good thing on my part.
Maybe that is why she thinks i never want to do anything or go anywhere.
All I can hope for is that all will pass and she will come back down to earth. Thanks for listening.

P.S. I have to tell you all that this past weekend I thought I was on a Jerry Springer show. My 23 yr old niece was pregnant for about a month when she lost the baby, and she went into what i say was pretty nasty depression. Her fiance was out of town, and needless to say her stepdad began to make advances toward her and telling her what she needed to hear.
All of a sudden she wasnt in love with her fiance, and was going to run off with her moms husband!
My D and S were both home for a bit and found out about their cousin and wanted to know what would cause someone to act that way. I made sure that my W was in hearing distance when I told them what I thought. I explained that in losing the baby, their cousin got depressed and didnt know how to handle the sitch. Instead of talking to the doctor or her fiance, she talked to her stepdad who took advantage of her and now has everything screwed up. I told them that sometimes women's emotions cause them to do things out of the normal, and that she is now fallen hook, line and sinker with someone who just told them what they wanted to hear. I also told them that with her fiance out of town, her stepdad was there to fill an emotional need.
I told them that it is always best to talk to the doctors or someone you trust b/c there are people out there that are very selfish and only think of themselves.
My W had nothing to say but "jeez'. Hope that sunk into my W's head.
Sandi sorry to steal your thread. Scotty