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She does not want counseling and has blamed me for all that is wrong in her life.


Hi, I'm LWB, the reason for my H's affair. Yep, it hurts, its never true, but they won't be convinced otherwise.

I am sorry about your situation. First I think you are right about getting some legal advice (even if there is no action) about your son and finances. Second, I think a LRT is due here, but only do it when you are ready to back it up. I say this, because I am not ready to do this. She is lost, and maybe it will wake her up a bit. Take care!