So H found a "friend". Of course, that was not the best way for him to handle things. Of course I responded negatively, but I think my own insecurities, along with the depression, really exasperated the sitch. They fed off each other. Does that make sense? This, of course, pushed H farther away from me and closer to OW.
Oh neph, you are right on with that. Right on. That is exactly what happened here, and H readily admits it as well. He was lonely, felt abandoned by me, found OW, and there it went.
Ok, reading your posts with all the actions that have happened with OW, OW's BF, the school, and your H, I am thinking you need to be super careful here. Yes, the things you did are justified, but they can totally be used against you in the future. No more visits to anyone or anywhere. They are being irrational with the ban from school, and the threat of the restraining order, but they seem to mean business.
