ND, You are in a difficult position. There is no easy way out of this. There is great distance in your M.
You can issue an ultimatum, and then follow-thru with your threat if it doesn't work. You can also practice DB strategies which require a great deal of patience and maturity.
Your commitment to the M is being tested.
When there is distance in the M, you have to measure progress by months, not days. You will need to be strong, patient, and civil. You will need to think more in terms of yourself versus being a couple.
It is the return of strength and vitality that will give you a different perspective on things and restore some balance to your life, so you don't get overwhelmed by the problems.
You have to decide which path you want to follow.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
