I'm far from the "perfect" husband, but I don't think anyone deserves this type of treatment either. W is an intelligent and thoughtful and capable of tremendous love and compassion.
We are all far from perfect, but you are right on by saying no one deserves this. If they were so unhappy, they should have had the nerve to leave us before anything happened.
I too, had cell phone issues. $400 bill the month the bomb dropped out of the sky. You think 5 calls a day were bad.......
I understand your anger and chaotic feelings going away and is followed with disappointment. That is perfectly worded. I am there with you.