HFF, What have you two been working on in the marital counseling sessions?
You've got to operate from a position of strength. You seem like you've been knocked down and can't get up.
Decide if you want to fight for this M or not. If you do then start taking care of yourself--exercise, connection, cultivating a positive attitude. Your worth as a human being is not dependent on your W.
Are you reading Divorce Remedy? This is the foundation book for dealing with a marital crisis.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
