Need Help/ Suggestions - Part 2

[NoDirection]

I understand what you are saying. In the last two weeks the following things have occured in our R. More of them are bad than good and I am not going into this saying I want a divorce, I want to start moving toward something...
Negatives
1. After our son's birthday party, my wife leaves to go out with friends. Tells me I am boring and I do not make her happy.
2. She does not return home until seven the next night after drinking the next day.
3. The following Monday she tells me that she no longer has fun with me and would rather go out by herself than do anything with me.
4. I recieve a call at work from her and she proceeds to scream at me for the next 20 minutes blaming me for the person she has become and for the fact that her grandmother is calling her selfish, stubborn, and self-centered.
5. That Friday I over hear her telling another man that she wants to have his children and has never felt the way she does when she is with him.
6. During all of this time she stays at home with the family only two nights in two weeks.

Positives
1. Today is my birthday and she has asked to do things with me today.
2. She did buy me a birthday gift.

In all honesty, I believe she is waiting for me to initiate the D. It has only been 5 months but I am reaching the breaking point. Some perspective on all of this isappreciated...