My old thread locked and I have no clue how to link it but here is an update. I have not gone dark as of yet but it is getting easier to want to. He called the kids on Tuesday and when he was done with them (only 3 of the 5 would talk to him)My son said Mom do you want to talk to Dad? I said no but he told my son to give me the phone. Then he started in on if I really cared about him I would have come to see him. I told him that he had her there the day I was supposed to come, I cut my finger half off that day, and his mom told me he didn't want to see me. He said something else and I just said I need to go and hung up. He called two more times then finally stopped.
He called last night and told me his counselor wants to conference with me. I told him fine to give me the details when he had them. We had a short conversation about a few things and I got upset and I just said I have to go take care of our five children its Halloween and hung up. Then he calls his X-wife and talks to her and the kids. She asked him do you want a divorce and his answer is "I don't know" and then he goes on to tell her he doesnt want me to ever date or bring anyone else into the kids or my life. HELLO.... he is the one that has a girlfriend that he met in a psychiatric ward pregnant. Seriously he needs to wake up. He can't have it all.
M 32 H 39 SS 15, SD 12, S11, S9, D7, D6, D4 E/A 02/06 WAS 03/06 RH 05/06 On 07/07 told me he wants to leave again. On 08/11/07 Walked out again.
People say "When God closes a door he opens a window." They forget to tell you "It is hell in the hallway!"
