That is so great your W was so into Halloween and did what she *should* do as a mother, make it wonderful for her kids. That makes me happy. Sorry about the possible 'dig' about your hair, but you handled it well. They have to lash out every once in awhile to remind us they are aliens.

Its ok if she is avoiding contact with you, just the fact that she did so much last night is wonderful. Maybe in time.......