P.S. He did mention the ltrs. He asked if I was trying to guilt him and I told him no and asked if he was ashamed or embarrased with what he had written. He sternly said no, but that was then and this is now and that is OVER. No, perhaps I didnt' accomplish anything with it but I did want him to see them. That he once had emotions.
I am taking D8 out tonite for dinner as today is her b-day. Originally kinda sorta hoped he might ask to come along. He didn't, and at this point I don't want him there. He scolded me that I didn't tell him of these plans and I reminded him that we ALWAYS take the kids out on their b-days. He said yeah, "we".
He walked them last night. I missed it. I feel like everything is slipping away.....Sigh


Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08