I can definatley relate to what you are saying! It is getting old! I don't plan to call it a day anytime soon, because I do know on some level he does want to work on it, so while I still feel that I wount end it. I do need to slow down and just let me and him rest and be for awhile.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!