Our H sound so similar, although does say he wants to leave, but does stupid things because of his guilt, when he did say he wanted to leave before it was because he felt he didn't deserve us, and wasn't a good example for the kids. I do think its a good idea to work through your retro post sessions at least and see what happens from there. He must want it to work on some level if he is so intent on doing the retro stuff.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
