Originally Posted By: hopeforfuture
I think the R ended the wrong way. I think it was more his decision than hers and she will always carry around this heartbreak. Knowing that she is still listening to her love song CD really made that clear to me. I really believe that if we were to reconcile, she wouldn't be able to put 100% into it and if the OG was available a year down the road, she would split in a heartbeat.


I'm starting to have the same feelings here. He ended it so she is still grieving and nowhere near thinking about our marriage. Will be posting about that myself soon.

Trying to be patient with it but not sure how long I can handle it.


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