HI Mwel I am struggling with that same issue right now. I believe that my H has an OW not that it is confirmed just rumors etc and they were friends but who knows. I know I do not but I still want things to work out with us as well. I never thought I would but I seem to. I keep giving him the benefit of the doubt. I am finding it strange that I feel this way as well.
Good idea not to contact her before next weekend. You will need that time to figure out things. I can not wait to see what you have to say.