I know. I found some of my H's letters to OW. They weren't too different. Said that he should have married her. She was always his love. I kept the letters, but copied the words onto another piece of paper and when he was complaining about "hurtful words" that I had said, I pulled out the paper and said, "You want to see hurtful words? These are hurtful words." He apologized. And I have never heard about my hurful words again.
