First off, gotta love someone that plays water polo. I haven't played in years and miss it. Just wanted to catch up on your thread and see whats up. I am not sure what to say, but keep following what is in your best interest. If H is an a$$ then sobeit, number one importance through this is your d, as you know. Quit being his caretaker, he has choices that he made. Who knows what will happen if he pulls his head from where the sun doesn't shine.
