If you've tried the supplements before, it might have been one that wasn't really good. meaning, not all brands or forms, are alike. the best way to take is thru nutrition from foods/liquids. If it's in pill form, our bodies only absorb 10-20 percent of it. I'm glad that you will start doing yogurt again, especially if you get on antibiotics. (do the whole milk, it tastes better, and they're finding out that low fat diets really aren't as healthy as they thought) Antibiotics can be very damaging to the body, and yogurt can definitely help keep the good bacteria from all being killed. I'm also not sure that Doctors would actually diagnose someone w/ candida. It's kind of a naturapathic diagnosis, I was thinking, could be wrong though.
I gotcha on the ML. I think it might have helped asking more direct questions, then asking the same vague one. Or even just saying, I really enjoy ML w/ you, but I want to do it in a monogamous R, so I need you to honestly tell me if you are involved physically with anyone else, or if it happens in the future. The ML is definitely something you need to figure out what to do. I was so turned on by my H (I think it was the whole, you want what you can't have, thing.. cause I've kinda lost it..oops) that I couldn't almost keep my hands off of him. And I even knew he was lying about seeing her, so I know that was stupid of me in the disease side of it all, but I was under the assumption that we had already ML after he cheated. Anyways, I do think it can be a good thing to continue, if it's in a healthy way. I was really concerned that my H was trying to eat his cake too, but later realized that he really WAS confused, and just really screwed up. The thing with ML, is that guys get love from it. We have to feel loved in order to want it, and guys are the other way around. So in your sitch, if it's not causing you to detract from what you know you need to continue doing and if H is not being totally disrespectful to you (which IMHO I don't think he is- comparing him to my H- I just think he's really messed up, and making stupid decisions, not purposely trying to be a jerk to you out of evilness), then if you feel compelled to ML, then I say go for it. If you really trust him on the not having sex w/ anyone. Michelle is for it as well, in the right situations.
What's really weird to me is that he keeps telling you "don't worry about this girl" like, don't worry cause she's not going to take me away from you. ????okay, if he isn't wanting to work on the M, why on earth would he say this? I almost think that in the back of his mind, he knows he should stay and it would be the right choice, but he's totally set in his mind that he can't be happy that way either... but the problem is that he's still searching for it from someone else, and he's not going to find it.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
