A friend asked me in email this morning if there was any chance of reconciliation, I thought i woudl post what I sent back to her as a record for me if I can add to the list...
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At this point in time and with E's past behaviours (and my own issues, like codependence and self esteem) i would not want to go back into a relationship with him. Things I would need to see would be counselling (joint and individual for both of us - preferably with the same C who could join things up again), honesty, openness, clean communication, massive reduction of passive aggressive behaviour, doing things together, planning ahead, budgeting, listening and validating, respecting my boundaries (and me learning to keep them!).
so...I guess that means a no to your question of reconciliation. And I'm sure that list above is not complete either!
