After intercepting an email, I found out she was at my house while I was at work the other day. I don't want that whore (pardon me) at my house and he knows it, so he sneaks her there when he is off and I'm at work.
I would like to know if it is a good idea to speak to her H. I know him slightly. I know he has a bad temper and does not treat her very well, but that's not my problem. The thing is, I don't really want him to lose his temper and kick her out. It is in my best interest to have her stay with him which she will on her own because of the money.
I wish my H would see that if she really loved him she would leave her H and go with him, that the money matters more than him. As it is, she will never leave all those greenbacks. I wish I could make him see how shallow she really is, that she is with him to boost her self esteem by feeling attractive again. My H is a handsome and charming (when he wants to be) man. Hers is not. He thinks she is deep and reads the books she says to read because they "struck a chord in her". He believes he and she know each other deeply and that they are soulmates. I wish I could change that.
I sent him a card for the holiday and he emailed me back to say thank-you, so that's progress. I'm sure the OW got him something better. I will continue working on myself, but it's hard to act happy when you're miserable. I know this will change and I will really start feeling happier in time, but right now it's very difficult. On the plus side, I feel now that if he can go away for a dirty weekend with OW, then I can go away for a fun weekend to Vegas or somewhere and not have to explain where, why etc. I applied for my passport.
