GD, All good thoughts. Esp. writing her a final letter after the D.
One other thought from my side: Do you think it could be possible that you really only want another chance with her out of a desire to prove that you can do it right, not out of a desire to be with her? If so, do you think this could really ever work?
Mostly rhetorically asked!
You're in a great path, stick to it.
SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread