I honestly believe that depression can have a HUGE (no pun intended guys) impact on ED issues...I know my H was severely depressed...after taking AD's for a while (which btw are known to reduce the libido) he started doing much better in that "area"...
I have to say that I remember before the bomb there being "intimate issues" such as what is being posted about here. I don't know what was causing it, either. Depression? An actual physical problem? Boredom from being with me for so long? Guilt from getting involved with ow? It's kind of like, which came first, the chicken or the egg, for lack of a better way of saying it.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
