I don't know if I should continue to DB.

[forward]

Well, H today said he wanted to agree to things verbally so he could take info to L. He is so very naive! His L is a friend and my L said that his L is advising outside his area of expertise. My L knows all the judges around here.

I did not tell him I have sought the advice of a different attorney. I tried to avoid legal discussion and just listened to him. Told him that since he is driving the process I would see what his L would say. I mean, what, I am going to verbally commit most of our estate? How silly that would be. Of course it's not binding but I certainly don't want to set that expectation.

It should be added that I was wearing my sexy new boots tonight. Which he did notice. I know. I took them off in front of him, knowing he would also notice that. And I believe he did.

I told him we should leg wrestle instead, as it would be cheaper. I said this with a flirtatious smirk. He said he appreciated the sentiment but that wasn't helping him. He also said "I can't stay in that apartment and also stay married to you." I said "I know."

I feel like a 180 for me is stating that I could rely on him more. I am very independent and I think he felt unnecessary. I told him I do not need him to pay half the rent (this was my swipe at OW, which DB C told me not to do but I could not help it), but as a friend and companion and lover but since he wanted D, I would see what he does.

Told him I did feel bad about his job, that he seemed to be having problems w/how little job paid but I always thought too that he should be paid more. Told him I was sorry he wasn't feeling well.

H was annoyed that I "wasn't helping." I think he thinks I will verbally agree to things, his L will type it up and I will sign it and that's it. I asked him if he wanted some Halloween candy and he said "I don't want anything from you" and left angry.

I am not particularly concerned about his angry or about what he says to L.