It is just hard because it feels like she is questioning her decision, at least the littlest bit, so it makes me want to rush in and pull her back to my side, to hug her and kiss her and tell her I'll change. I know, I CAN'T do any of that, and I will stay strong. But it certainly isn't easy for her, and that's a plus...a lot better than her leaving and not looking back.
Yeah, my W has had times when she has questioned what she is doing, and the first time I jumped in and tried to haul her back into the relationship... Didn't work too well.
I think the important thing when that happens is to give her the space to let the thoughts process... As soon as you pursue, she'll think you've not changed and go back to where she was.
