respond or stay still?

[heartbreak2]

I am wondering if he is really in mlc or he is just a want to be not married..

he just called
told me he has the paperwork and then listened to me tell about my uncle in the ICU and what ever
then said he sent an email with the alimony amts.
I told him it was unacceptable and he asked why and I told him
that there is a formula and I know what a judge would give me and
that he has traveled in the last yr with her and is having an affair and committing adultery

he told me.... that has nothing to do with it.

I said.. what? it has everything to do with it you chose a different life and think that you can just leave and do that?

he said.. yes it was unbearable I could not live with you and I had to leave.

I had to go for trick or treater where at the door... so then I called him back. He told me he just got a call his brother was in a car accident. BUT he was still able to continue to explain to me why he can't pay the amt of alimony I want... wait... it is what the court will give me?? so I thought that is what my L said

anyway... he is being a twit and well... good riddance is all I want to say right now. I can't be bothered if he has no feelings

I told him that we needed to be nice to each other and respect each other and he did say that we needed to do that.
ok... so when is he going to start?

not sure what is up with him tonight but I do know a yr ago he went through the same thing on the same week...
yes indeed folks on Oct 30th he went to his L and had her mail separation papers that I got in the mail on the 4th of nov.
when I called him to talk about it he was mad and evil and yelled at me like he had never done before.
a wk later he did not show for the mediation mtg. and a wk after that he showed up at the house like nothing was wrong and a wk later he wanted to come home and did for 8 days.

so who know maybe the evil spirits are in him tonight.

I have so much to do tonight I don't have time for this.
need to figure out how to move my address book from outlook express to this email on my new computer.
can't find the cd for the printer to install it..
what else it new.. !!

life just goes on....
I just don't get why he would tell me thanks for the ecard in an email and then again on the phone and then turn into evil person.

guess it has been a long time since I have dealt with him ... need a refresher course !!