I have watched my wife exhibit all these strange emotions, but it turns out there is OM involved. When a woman is stuck with you, but wants to be with someone else, it drives them crazy.
Before she leaves home, get a PI and follow her. It will cost alot of money, but if there is someone else..then you will know why things are so silly at home. And, you will have your ammo when you head to court. If she leaves, make sure it is against your wishes and that it is documented. Claim she abandoned you and your family...also might be very useful. Unfortunately, you need to play hardball when you least feel like it.
