Do you think he's more sitting at a "comfort" zone and he is afraid to really change anything as in moving in any which direction? A lot of fear that he may lose that "comfort" if things change....

It is nice that you are emotionally fullfilled and happy. \:\) I'm sensing perhaps he's feeling a bit of that too....

M: 31
W: 31
M: 7 T: 8
S:4 D:2
Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one
S on 9/2/07
W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.

My sitch:
http://tinyurl.com/3dqw93