The problem with the Internet is just that, it's a big ol' Internet.
I've been thinking of looking into non-denominational churches in the area. Probably will do when I get back from Louisiana. Big duh for me. Of course lots of opps through there.
How about: Puddle and Heim, L2
Puddle, FWIW, I think you've hit detachment and your H's actions are allowing you to bury, like someone mentioned above, a lot of the good in your M. That's a good thing. Just if he does a 360, in a reasonable amount of time, and realizes what a doofus he's being, I hope if you're well and truly moved on, it's because you've well and truly moved on and not just "shut down."
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY