respond or stay still?

[heartbreak2]

Out of the blue H called today.
Been 8 wks since he put the D on hold and
the only conversations have been about settlement
mostly alimony. No fighting or arguing we jut talk.

Well yesterday I sent an email for the first time in wks and asked him the details of d going away with him this wkend for I to want to take advantage of her not being here (and me being responsible all the time) to go away.

I also told him my Uncle is still in the ICU on 16 days now and my mom is most likely going to start asking to go up and I need him to pull on d's reins if I go for she is juggling 2-3 boys right now.

he responded ... told me when d would be with him and told me he would keep tabs on her let him know.

that is like a huge sentence coming from him for I asked months ago for him to do this and he ignored me.

so then I got stupid and sent him an awesome halloween ecard that was an act from Macbeth with a witches spell.

he was at work and got it last night and replied .... thanks

well today he calls--- I was outside working in yard and he left msg. Hi this is (butthead) he actually said who he was like I would not know?? He always says.. hi its me..

so he sounded really nervous.. hestitated stumbled over his words like.
said
"i will try to call you on your cell phone" " thanks for the halloween card on email pause... thankyou bye"

On my cell he was in the OR there was lots of noise like someone dumped a tray on the floor.
He said he had his earning statements and the letter of things from the house and was giving them to s tonight if he comes to work.
"i will txt or email you later" bye

ok... not sure what is up here...

Do I ignore him??
let him try to call me again and answer?

I guess what I am trying to say is if he is attempting to call me to tell me that he has the paperwork that is odd for he would just send it home with s in an envelope like he does with the ck every month. S works at the hospital that H does.

cowards way out to not bring it to me in person is how I feel and I want to call him on it and make him bring it to me..

He has been in total withdrawal from me for 4 months now. No contact other than 4-5 times. less than 5 min a couple times when he picked up kids.

Part of me wants to think I sent the card and he is upset that I am pursueing him and that is why he is now getting me the paperwork after 8 wks.
BUT?? would he tell me thank you for the card in an email? and again on the phone?
is this sort of reaching out.??

I am trying hard not to read into this...
going to go sit on the dock collect my senses back... this took me by surprise but oddly.. and some may think I am weird.
I had this weird thought about him hit me this afternoon when I was raking. Had not had that happen in a long long time.

See I can go with out dwelling on him or wondering about him so when he calls it hits hard.

any suggestions ?
I was having a great day and well still will for it is halloween and have to give out candy and look my best should he show up.

thanks
hb2