New to Piercing...I mean Piecing, not sure I feel comfortable posting here fully just yet, like I might jinx it.
Be that as it may,
Jen is right. You are not ok with the Seperation plans. Why not tell her that next time she brings it up.
Your changes that you are making, your also pointing out how you are hoping that she sees them or wondering what her reactions are to them, if the changes are not for you they aren't going to last. And then rinse and repeat this process, if those changes are the reasons she doesn't leave.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
