How are you? How are things going, all well I hope. I've missed you heaps.
Just a quick post;
My SIL rang me last night, and we spoke for about an hour. What she wanted to tell me on Sunday (after DD's party) was that W and her spoke about her life, and W asked her if she has made the right decision..................wanted her opinion.
SIL told her that she has made a huge mistake, and that she never game me a chance, not ever in the last 11 months. And that if she did not latch onto OM, we would be back together today. W said "Well it doesn't matter now, he would never take me back, I've done too much for him to ever forgive me".
She also said that she never saw the changes back then, but can see them now.
SIL also told me that W and OM had an argument about womens phone numbers on his mobile phone (don't know the whole story), but OM has heaps of numbers, and txt and calls female friends. W has always been the jealous type.
SIL told me that W sounds soooo confused.
I told SIL that at the moment, I cannot forgive or accept W back whilst she was with OM, but who knows what may happen in the future. If she "drops" him and works on herself and us, and gives it a few months, these feelings may change. I just wanted to be honest, and not give her false hope, as I am confused about my feelings also.
Text book MLC. How weird that this sitch is like so many others.
