She says that when she thinks about loving me again, having me live with her again, she feels like she is going back to being trapped ======================================= they are too afraid to be vulnerable again, too afraid to give, my H is the same, thinks if he gives of himself he'd be giving in. Don't know what it takes for them to feel safe again, it is a hard place to be in, sound like your W might have a bit of the MLC malady.
Sorry about the move LG, I sure hope you find a good place for you and your son, moves are stressful in any situation.
she should face all the consequences. I'm being a little unfair. =============== Heck no, she made her bed she should lie on it. I had to stop myself from trying to rescue my H when he was gone from our home, he chose that life then he'd have to deal with the fruits of his actions. I felt bad, but he was an adult, he chose to leave.
Don't know about where you live, but having kids and property might not let u get an uncontested D.
Yea, if ...IF it gets to that point, if I were u, I would stay away from a rebound R, I think 9mths should be the least time to wait.
I think that kind of thinking (D, dating) interfears with our db plans. I too have planned, but find myself thinking too much about it sometimes and I see it could become a barrier to more positive thoughts. Nothing wrong about making plans, just don't focus on them too much.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
