I don't know if I'm resilient or stupid. lol I'm kidding...actually, I'm fairly easy-going, that's all. Maybe it helps that xh and I talk so much about all of this...I can hear the confusion and stress for him. I keep thinking if he could just make it through...doesn't have to fix everything, just the stuff that has been sabotaging his past R's...
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a) He works through his issues and he stays for good, or b) You realize this is going to be a life time struggle for him and he will keep running away and you probably will make a choice to stick with him or let go depending how much you are willing to take.
Yeah, I know. That's what I decided months ago. I think it'll be awhile before I 'know' for sure...
We joked last night that he's been basically having a MLC the last three years--except he's not middle-aged. I do think it's the same thing, tho. Major psychological crisis for him. Poor guy.
Oh, I did the reverse of a comment he made the other day. :grin" He told me last night he doesn't want to date, because our friendship would have to change. (Less emotional intimacy, no overnights, etc.) Sounds like he's still in limbo, and is unsure of what it is he wants. Not much I can do about that; it's his problem, not mine.
