I agree with SteveInTN. Detach. As he has said, for now, he has made his decision. That decision may not seem as great in a few months, but for now there is nothing that you can say or do that can change his mind. Let him go. Stop letting him hurt you. Be strong. It's up to him to reengage.
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair