What is reasonable and what is not?

[Startingover2]

Things are going great between us. Strangely great. He is loving, sweet, affectionate, and seems sincere. He sends me sweet text messages and is around alot.

Last night he had his girls unexpectedly. He was going to stay with me at my house but then he had his girls. He asked me to stay at his house with him. It was awesome. I guess he must not be hiding me or the status of our relationship from ow as he wouldn't be having me spend the night at his house. OW has to drive right by in the morning on her way to school. I am sure she saw my car there this morning. If he had something to hide he would want to stay out of public eye. Makes me feel good.

I hope it keeps up. I am not putting my eggs in one basket yet. Time will tell.