also, without the kids, you can end up breaking up and never having to see that person again if you don't want to. With kids, your R with your WAS NEVER ends.

Kids definitely play a bigger part in it don't they. If a family is able to stay together (w/o abusive Rs) it gives stability for our kids. I look highly on you both for putting the effort into saving your Ms as you have and are.

it is sad that D has become the norm for families now and that our WAS isn't understanding the dramatics of going thru a D.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."