I know my H's family is not very loving. H's Mom is actually kind of frigid. His Dad was an alcoholic and would take off for weeks at a time. His two other brothers one older and one younger have both been in a MLC.Older brother's wife took him back after he left to live with OW but younger left his fiance' and married his OW and he is not happy you can tell.
Just a F##ked up life growing up. I thought H was one that was more grounded, guess I was wrong.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez