Hi everyone - Thank you so much for all of your great advice, it helps to have people who can relate to what I'm going through. I do have another question that I'm hoping someone can help me with I had posted the question on another post but since now I believe my H is in MLC I thought I should ask it here. Anyway since March when my H told me he's not in love with me anymore he has not called me by my name he just says "hey" but never my name so I was wondering if that has happened to anyone else or if anyone can shed some light on why he's doing that. Also I wanted to add that on Monday night my H came home from work ate dinner and was talking to me a bit just about general stuff but he was talking so I thought it was a good sign but then last night he didn't get home until after midnight, didn't eat dinner and just went to bed (in another room of course). Anyway it just killed me because I thought that after monday night we were starting towards something positive but then after last night I feel like I'm right back where I was before. He did tell me in September that he was seeing someone at work but he said it wasn't physical and my H was never the type to pick up women because when we first got together years ago I was the one to pursue him because he was very quiet and shy so I wasn't quite sure if he was lying to me about OW because I kept bothering him about saving our R. I dont understand why one day he seems a little bit nice and the next day he's very distant and secretive. I'm trying to stall the D but I did see a L because he kept telling me to get one. I just dont know what to do anymore I have tried to give him space and not talk about R but it doesn't seem to help I feel like we are more distant then ever. I would really appreciate any advice anyone can give me. Thank you so much for listening.
